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Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim

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Forward

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I will answer any questions you have about what it's like to be a victim of domestic abuse and how I eventually dragged myself out of the cycle.

Please be prepared for honest answers that are not necessarily pretty.

Because people ask why I talk about it;
Personally, I've never believed that things happen for a reason. But I do believe we can take the things that happen to us and use them to better someone else's life. So I talk about my experiences- it doesn't change them, make them go away, or make them any worse. Occasionally I feel the shame and stigma of having been a victim for so long. But if that's the only cost to me to help someone else? That seems a worthwhile price.

****EDIT**** I'm seeing a lot of people save this but not ask any questions, so please let me clarify/confirm; I am NOT easily offended, and I'm not shy. I have gone through a lot to get where I am and it has made me a stronger person. I'd love to answer your questions, so please don't be afraid to ask. At the very least, say hi!

Training & Qualifications


A domestic abuse survivor.

I am now happily married to a wonderful man who would never dream of hurting me in any way.

Availability & Preferences


I'm flexible :)

Trading Preference: Pay it forward – pass on the good deed!

Reviews of Cassandra


Inactive User
Inactive User received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Oct 29, 2017
This was my first Simbi transaction, and Cassandra made it very pleasant. She was kind, timely, and has a great handle on this topic!
Luke received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Oct 06, 2017
Amazing lady :)
Daniel received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Oct 05, 2017
Honest and helpful.
Inactive User
Inactive User received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 28, 2017
Cassandra is a lovely human!
Inactive User
Inactive User received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 18, 2017
Amazing!
Dani received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 15, 2017
Cassandra is very honest, and I have nothing but the deepest gratitude and upmost respect for this honesty and openness about a very difficult thing.
Amanda received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 04, 2017
Wonderful person beautiful soul
Nanncie received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 03, 2017
Thank you Cassandra for answering some questions for me. I am a advocate of Verbal Abuse. Sharing awareness is my #1 goal since 2011. Sending you to...ns of Blessings. Namasteshow more
Briar received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Sep 18, 2017
Cassandra is very open and so willing to help out. It's great to talk to her.
Sara received session of Ask a Domestic Abuse Victim from Cassandra
Jul 27, 2017
Cassandra was very insightful and polite. You can tell she has a passion for helping people.


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About Cassandra Walker

I'm a self taught quilter/ stay at home mom who strives for excellence in everything I do. I love to create, and after having spent YEARS attempting different hobbies, I finally found the one best sui...ted for me- who doesn't love such utter versatility?! I also love to bake, go on adventures, and explore people from around the world- people are so...so INTERESTING! And fun. Always lots of fun :) Baking has been a relatively recent adventure, too- it's so much fun to experiment and work with new flavors and ideas- just one idea can create a thousand totally unique others by tweaking little things. Utterly glorious! From pineapple upside down cake to diabetic friendly cookies; who doesn't love the finer things in life. And with over 20 people as my guinea pi...I mean, taste testers, I just know you'll love them as much as the rest of us. Perhaps my driving passion in life has been to help people better understand themselves, as well as those around them. Whether it's through a more quiet medium, such as writing, or a more expressive one, such as a conversation, I do so love to understand people in order to help them. We are all so different, unique individuals, and yet our core passions, our NEEDS, remain so utterly unchanging. People are so WONDERFUL! So beautifully, wonderfully, glorious. I can't wait to see them, meet them, KNOW them- how else can you possible understand the motivations and inner desires of life? And isn't that the current that runs through us all?show more

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